In a time of pandemic when death is ever present, it is a good idea for us to remember that life is neither as bad as we think, and can be so much better than we have hoped. If we have not lost any loved ones to Covid-19 we can count ourselves among the blessed. But, we must also be grateful for the choice to determine how best we cope in these days and times, how we would like to design our lives post quarantine to enjoy every minute, every breath, and every relationship.